Friday, November 27, 2009

Those Damn Holiday Cards

It is that time of year again. Time to find the right gifts, try to find time to fit everything into jam packed weekends and, of course, time to pick the perfect Christmas card. Out of those 3, I thinking picking out the card is the toughest.

Since LG was born, I have spent hours pouring over photos, trying to pick the best one for our card. The first few years, it was just LG on our card. It is rare that the 3 of us are in a photo together so it was easier to just find a photo of Ashley. I think LG is very photogenic but it still was a painstaking process for me to chose the right photo. Yes, I realize there are people with "real problems" in the world so zip it!

Last year we had our first family photo shoot and I LOVED what Linda did. This year I had planned on having my friend Tracey do a photo shoot with us but then I decided that it wasn't necessary. Yes, I love having photos of the 3 of us but we don't look that different from last year and really everyone just wants to see LG. I didn't really like LG's school photos so I was happy to have Tracey photograph LG and as a bonus, my dad was here so I decided to have some Daddy, daughter, grand daughter shots taken. I haven't seen all of them just yet but the teasers that Tracey sent me are AMAZING.

I am thinking the biggest problem I will have this year is choosing to use one or more than one photo. Here are 3 shots for you to check out....

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!

I am over at Leapfrog today talking about how to teach your kids gratitude! Stop by and say hi.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Are You Prepared for the Next Big One?

Living in California and having spent my summers dealing with tornado warnings in Michigan, you think that I would be a little bit prepared for a disaster should it happen. Yeah, um, not so much. Sure, we have a "disaster kit" that I bought at Target but beyond that I am not really prepared. I know that it is something that I should be doing but up until now it has been at the bottom of the list and just gotten pushed aside.

On Monday, I went to CityMama’s adorable apartment to hear from California Volunteers about Disaster Preparedness with Robyn. I was really amazed by all the info. that we got and realized that getting prepared in baby steps is the way to go. California Volunteers website as very detailed info on things to do but Robyn came up with a great list of simple things that Firefighter Erica discussed with us. I will admit that I just copied this list from Robyn's blog because I am being lazy and she said it all so well! Thankfully, I am a good friend and told her I was stealing her post ;-)

Create a Family Disaster Plan. Make sure it includes two meeting places, an out-of-state contact, and storing copies of important documents outside of your home (like in a safe deposit box). CalVolunteer’s website will also make a free downloadable customizable book for your kids. How cool is that?

Put shoe box under everyone’s bed with a pair of shoes, flashlight, and sweater. If there's an emergency in the middle of the night, everyone can get out of the house safely.

Practice with your kids how to escape from their bedroom if there was a fire. Our windows don't open well enough for us to be able to climb out so we need to practice with LG on how to get out. When seconds count, you don’t want your kids panicking that they don’t know what to do.

Know where your gas shut-off is and how to turn it off. One thing we learned is that people often turn off gas after a disaster even when it isn't necessary. If you smell gas or hear a leak in your home, turn off the gas. Otherwise, it’s OK to leave it on. You also should NEVER turn the gas back on....have PG&E do it because it can be very dangerous.

Properly secure your water heater. One, you don’t want hot water pouring everywhere. Two, it hooks up to your gas, so you don’t want a leak if it fell. But most important, the water in your water heater can be your best source of water if you can’t drink your tap water.

My biggest take-away came from the firefighter who was there to show us what we can do to keep our families safe. Erica said that in a large disaster (think Katrina, think the ’89 Quake, etc), that her #1 goal was to be able to stay at home and not have to go to a shelter. Of course, staying in your home isn’t always an option. But if you can stay home, would you want to? You must make sure that your home is supplied to allow for it. Going through the Disaster Supplies Checklist, I realized that we have a lot of this stuff already in our home but we’ve never organized it into one place.

And if you still feel like you'll never earn your Merit Badge for Disaster Preparedness, then how about a Disaster Kit for FREE?!? CalVolunteers is letting me giveaway TWELVE disaster kits to my lucky readers. Simply comment on this post before Monday, November 23rd with what change your family is going to make to be more prepared for a disaster. Winners will be chosen at random.

Photo credit: California Volunteers

Disclosure: I received a free lunch and two disaster kits during my morning at CityMama's house. I was not obligated to write a piece. The opinions expressed above are mine and mine alone....okay and Robyn's!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Find Me at LeapFrog Today

Today I officially started my LeapFrog fun! I am very excited. You can check out my fir post here. I would love to see some comments and love over there. You can subscribe to that blog even! I will only be posting about once a week so it won't crowd your feed reader.

Thank you for all of your support! This week has been INSANE. I have subbed for 2 days, participated in a Disaster Preparedness event, written for LeapFrog and tomorrow am participating in a Planned Parenthood event. I have been waiting for the time I was crazy busy and now that it is here I am a bit overwhelmed. Just getting dinner cooked has been a task.

It really makes me think of all my friends who work full time and just how hard it is. I have always *thought* it was tough but now actually living it is a whole other ball game. I am truly loving it and know that while the adjustment will be tough, I will be soaring soon.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Professional Writer? Why YES I Am!!!!!

For the past few years I have been blogging. It started off as a way to keep my out of state parents in the loop with our lives but it grew into much more than that. I had readers! 100 a day! I got comments! It was amazing and very affirming for all I was dealing with.

Then last November my husband demanded that I take a break because blogging was taking over my life. It was great to take a step back and not worry about having to write or to check if anyone had commented, etc. I watched my readership drop and while, at first, I panicked, in the end I didn't care. After that month long break, I never really seemed to get my blog mojo back. Sadly, I didn't really care.

The blog world is VERY saturated with writers. These days, everyone has a blog and it seems everyone only cares about making money (of course, there are exceptions). I was happy to step away from it. You see, I have made money being a writer but that isn't why I started writing. In fact, when I started this blog I didn't even know that I COULD make money from it!!!

Fast forward a year....

I have all but stopped writing. My family is on me, my friends are on me, I am on myself. I have lost my creative outlet but in some ways I haven't wanted to share because I have been dealing with the ups and downs of life and out of respect for everyone, I don't need to share. I realize now though that I miss this!

A few weeks ago, I went to an event with my friends at Leapfrog and reconnected with Jaeme who works for LF. We had talked briefly a year or so ago about potentially blogging for LF but I never really followed up. I casually inquired about writing again and she was very interested!

I am thrilled to be able to announce that I will be blogging professionally for Leapfrog!!!!! My hobby has turned into a new paid writing job and I couldn't be more excited! LF is a company that I LOVE. LG has nearly all of their toys and I believe in their commitment to helping children learn through technology. I have watched my own child learn all of her letters and their sounds from Leapfrog. They truly have amazing products.

I can't wait to start finding my passion again. I am still going to be subbing but I am hoping to turn this Leapfrog thing into more hours and more writing gigs. Life is changing but I am jumping on for the ride!!!!!!